Fellatio, oral sex, sucking off, blowing, giving head… whatever you call it, there probably isn’t a man alive who doesn’t love it.
Want to give a better blow job? Forget everything you’ve seen in porn. The quick, robotic, bobbing up and down on your bloke’s bratwurst with your mouth is generally pretty unsexy. And for many women, the ability to actually enjoy any attempt to deep throat is a myth.
Here are our five top tips for giving great head.
Take Your Time
A rushed hummer is pretty unsexy, so be sure to take your time so you can both enjoy it. Start slow to make him squirm: grazing your mouth against his penis, kissing up and down his shaft, licking his tip, and building his anticipation.
Focus On His Sensitive Spots
Linger on the parts of his anatomy that are especially sensitive, including the tip of his penis, his testicles, his frenulum (the flesh underneath the crown of his penis) and his perineum (the spot between his testicles and butthole). Oral is about using your mouth to maximum effect, so try gently licking or sucking his balls.
If you’re both into it, you can incorporate a little ass play into your oral encounter, but it’s the kind of thing you want to approach gently – deciding to poke about all-guns-blazing while his dick is in your mouth can end badly for everyone.
Use Your Hands
Yes, oral is all about wowing him with your wanton mouth, but your hands are just as important – especially if your partner’s penis is more than a mouthful. For a killer combo, use your mouth and hands together. Let your hand act as an extension of your mouth so it feels as though you’re taking more of him, without actually heading into deep-throat-country.
Have A Break
Awkward angles and jaw pain suck, so be sure to take some breaks. This doesn’t have to spoil the mood. Pulling back for a short time can heighten arousal for both of you, and there are plenty of things you can do to maintain momentum, like teasing him with your hands or trying the ridiculous-sounding, but effective, lipstick technique. Keep a glass of icy water beside the bed and have a few sips. Cooling down the temperature of your mouth will give him a pleasant surprise when you go back for more.
Seeing how much your partner enjoys your BJ can be a big turn on. Likewise, conveying your genuine enthusiasm while giving oral can send him over the edge. Show him you’re into it. Give him a little flirty eye contact while you have him in your mouth, and don’t be afraid to audibly convey how much you love pleasuring him.
The more you enjoy the experience, and the more you can convey that to your partner, and the more pleasure he’s bound receive as a result.
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